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If you want to stop caring what others think…
If you want to move through the world with confidence and grace…
If you want to build the business, approach the girl, master your craft, or get what you want out of life…
Here are 8 steps to just stop giving a f*ck.
We’re going to go over:
- The 3 pillars of self-confidence so you can stop caring… fast.
- Why you care so much in the first place (so you have the awareness to stop).
- How to reprogram your mind to become who you were meant to be.
- Why you are probably on a life path that has a 100% failure rate, and how to escape.
- How to develop your own internal compass and find what you want in life.
- The passion process for discovering your interests and turning improvement into obsession.
- A tool to accelerate changing your life.
- The nature of reality, and how it can help you become more intelligent (so you stop worrying about minor inconveniences).
I don’t want this to be yet another superficial band-aid of step-by-step advice you can find anywhere online. I want you to solve this problem for good. And that will require us to go deep.
1) The 3 Pillars Of Self-Confidence
The first step to not giving a f*ck is understanding the big picture of self-confidence, not just some shallow advice.
If self-confidence were as simple as watching a YouTube video on confidence, we would live in a Utopia.
There is something much deeper going on, and I hope I can make you aware of it throughout this letter.
Lack of confidence is the one thing that plagues the potential of the majority of the population. They care too much about what others think.
Let’s say you want to start a business, and the thoughts start to flood in:
What will my parents think?
What will my friends think?
What will my spouse think?
Will it be enough to replace my income?
How long will it take?
Don’t even get me started on the thoughts that come when you actually start building the business.
